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A man in a green sport coat, white shirt and knitted tie at a garden wedding.
Style Guide · Weddings

What to wear to a wedding as a guest

Read the invitation, then dress one step up: what a man wears to a wedding, from the garden to black tie.

Being a wedding guest is easy to get right: read the invitation, dress one step up, and leave the spotlight to the groom.

Read the invitation

  • Black tie: a tuxedo, a white shirt and a black bow tie. Midnight blue is right too.
  • Black tie optional or formal: a tuxedo is welcome; a dark suit with a tie is just as right.
  • Cocktail or semi-formal: a suit and tie. Navy or charcoal for the evening.
  • Garden, daytime or summer: a lighter suit in tan, light grey or light blue.
  • Beach or casual: a light suit or a linen jacket. The tie can go, the jacket stays.

By season

  • Spring and summer: lighter cloth and colours: tan, light grey, light blue, sage.
  • Fall and winter: deeper colours and heavier cloth: navy, charcoal, brown, green. A velvet jacket for a winter evening.

What to avoid

  • White. That's the bride.
  • The wedding party's colour in a big way. A small touch on the pocket square is fine.
  • Dressing down. Nobody minds the guest in a tie. Everyone notices the one without a jacket.

Rent or buy?

For a black tie wedding, rent the tuxedo for the night. For everything else, a good navy or grey suit you own will cover most weddings for years.

Bring the invitation. We'll help you read it and put the look together.

Outfit ideas.

  • Summer garden wedding

    Summer garden wedding

  • Destination wedding

    Destination wedding

  • Fall wedding

    Fall wedding

  • Formal evening wedding

    Formal evening wedding

  • Modern grey suit

    Modern grey suit

Style tips.

  • Read the invitation first: it tells you the dress code.
  • White is for the bride.
  • Dress one step up when you're not sure.
  • Black tie wedding? Rent the tux about a month ahead.

Colours.

  • Midnight Blue
Look sharp, and leave the spotlight to the groom.
From our fitting room · San Marko, Yonkers

Questions.

What should a man wear to a wedding as a guest?
Follow the invitation. Most weddings call for a suit and tie: navy, grey or charcoal. Black tie means a tuxedo.
Can I wear a tux to a wedding as a guest?
Yes, when the invitation says black tie or black tie optional. For anything less formal, a dark suit is right.
What colours should a wedding guest avoid?
White belongs to the bride. Skip anything that looks like the wedding party's colour.
What should I wear to a garden or summer wedding?
A light suit in tan, light grey or light blue, with a white shirt and a tie. Leave the tie off only if the invitation says casual.
What do I wear to a black tie wedding?
A black or midnight blue tuxedo, a white shirt and a black bow tie. You can rent one from us for the night.

Advice from the San Marko fitting room, 718 Central Park Ave, Yonkers, NY. Family-run since the early 1970s.

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