
Matching the groom and the party
How the groom stands apart while the party looks as one.
The party should look like one group in the photos. The groom should look like the groom. We always start with him: how he wants to look first, then everybody else around him.
Keep the same for the party
- The same tux, in the same colour and lapel.
- The same shirt and the same black bow tie.
- The same finish: cummerbund or suspenders, cufflinks and studs.
Set the groom a step above
One or two of these is enough:
- An ivory dinner jacket with black trousers.
- A peak lapel for him, notch lapels for the party.
- A double-breasted jacket for him, single-breasted for the party.
- A midnight blue tux against a black party.
- A vest, or a vest with suspenders.
- A silk bow tie with a fuller cut.
- An ivory bow tie with a black tux: the old classic, if he wants it.
- His own new shirt, crisper in every photo.
Where the colour goes
A common mistake: the groom wants a big colour to match the bridesmaids. We bring it back. The groom matches the bride, who wears white. Keep the bow ties black and put the wedding colour on the pocket squares. We match the pocket squares to the bridesmaids' dresses: sage, blush, wine, anything. The look stays classic, and the colour still shows.
The bow tie and the pocket square should go together, not be the exact same match. Think of a bouquet: no two flowers are exactly the same colour. Prom is the exception: there, the matching look is the fun of it.
Boys in the party
We fit every size, for men and boys, so ring bearers and young ushers match the rest.
The surest way to match: everyone fitted from the same shop, and a final fitting together 2 to 3 days before the wedding.
Outfit ideas.

Ivory groom, black party

The groom stands apart

The party, fitted together

Midnight blue for the groom
Style tips.
- The groom matches the bride, not the bridesmaids.
- Bow tie black, colour on the pocket square.
- Groom in a peak lapel, the party in a notch lapel.
- Final fitting together, 2 to 3 days before.
Colours.
Black
Ivory
Blush
Wine
Midnight Blue
The groom matches the bride, not the bridesmaids.
Questions.
- Should the groom match the bridesmaids?
- No. The groom matches the bride. Keep the bow ties black and put the wedding colour on the pocket squares.
- How does the groom stand out from his groomsmen?
- One or two touches: an ivory jacket, a peak lapel, a double-breasted jacket, a vest, or a midnight blue tux.
- Can the groom wear a light jacket?
- Yes. An ivory dinner jacket with black trousers is one of the classic ways for the groom to stand apart.
- Do you have tuxedos for ring bearers?
- Yes. We fit every size, for men and boys, so the young ones match the party.
Advice from the San Marko fitting room, 718 Central Park Ave, Yonkers, NY. Family-run since the early 1970s.
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